A recent report indicates that London has the highest average cost for attended funerals compared to any other location in the UK.
The financial services firm SunLife revealed that the typical funeral expense in 2024 stood at £4,285, while in London, it reached £5,449—representing a 5.4% increase from the previous year and 58% more than the lowest average in Northern Ireland.
There are growing concerns regarding funeral poverty, with the organization Quaker Social Action highlighting that financial burdens can “strip individuals of their ability to mourn.”
The government provides some assistance to eligible individuals; specifically, those on certain benefits may access a Funeral Expenses Payment, helping to mitigate funeral costs.
According to SunLife’s findings, this payment generally covers around 46% of total funeral expenses for recipients.
Additionally, local authorities offer public health funerals, which entail basic funeral services financed by the government.
Lindesay Mace, who coordinates initiatives to combat funeral poverty at Quaker Social Action, noted: “We frequently hear from individuals that they lack the mental space to grieve because they are consumed with financial worries.”
“When faced with unaffordable costs, some people resort to using their rent money for funeral deposits or cut back on groceries and essential bills in order to gather funds,” she explained.
On a more positive note, Clare Montagu, the chief executive of Poppy’s Funerals, suggested to BBC London that there are methods to lessen expenses while still creating a meaningful farewell.
“For instance, you could opt for a simple cardboard coffin and personalize it by decorating it with meaningful images, words, or symbols related to the deceased,” she advised.
“You can bring your own flowers instead of hiring a florist, and you can conduct the ceremony without needing a religious minister or celebrant.”
Jordan Flynn from SunLife mentioned that London has the lowest rate of residents making financial arrangements for their own funerals, coupled with the highest number of funeral organizers expressing financial stress due to funeral expenses.
He recommended obtaining quotes from multiple funeral directors and inquiring about options to reduce costs.
The report further indicated that simple attended cremations with a service have become the most favored type of funeral. This option is generally more affordable, with direct cremations—where no service is included—averaging at £1,597.
Dan Garrett from Dignity noted a significant rise in direct cremations over the past five years, increasing from approximately 2% of all funerals in 2019 to nearly 20% in the last year.
“It’s a much more budget-friendly alternative, and 89% of families opting for direct cremation subsequently hold a separate celebration of life,” he remarked.
According to SunLife, the overall expenses associated with dying in 2024 reached an all-time high of £9,797 on average, encompassing funeral costs, professional fees, and farewell expenses.
Ms. Mace emphasized that government assistance and wages have not matched the rising costs of funerals, which have exceeded general inflation rates over the past two decades.
A spokesperson from the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) commented: “Experiencing the loss of a loved one is incredibly painful, and we recognize the financial strain it can impose on families.”
“The DWP’s Funeral Expenses Payment scheme offers some financial relief towards funeral costs for individuals on specific income-related benefits and provides an additional £1,000 to cover other associated expenses.”
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