A brand-new online directory designed to assist LGBTQ+ individuals facing mental health challenges is being launched in memory of Robin Windsor, a former professional dancer on Strictly Come Dancing.

Windsor passed away unexpectedly in February 2024 at the age of 44, and an investigation into the circumstances surrounding his death is scheduled for January 2026.

He was featured on Strictly from 2010 to 2013, partnering with personalities such as Patsy Kensit, Anita Dobson, Lisa Riley, and Deborah Meaden.

Davide Cini, Robin’s closest friend and former partner, played a key role in establishing the Ask Bobby directory. He expressed his hope that the directory would serve as a comprehensive resource for mental health charities, community organizations, and sports groups that individuals can reach out to for support.

Davide aims for the directory to be a tribute to Robin’s enduring influence and his commitment to advocating for mental health issues prior to his passing.

“He found solace during his toughest moments by helping others, including children and individuals with disabilities, experience the joy of dance,” he shared.

Additionally, Davide noted that Robin’s advocacy as an ambassador for the mental health organization Sane held great significance for him.

He mentioned that the inspiration for the directory’s name struck him “in the middle of the night.”

The directory, named Ask Bobby, has been created by the organization You Are Loved, which offers guidance and resources to the LGBTQ+ community.

According to its founder, Marc Svensson, the initiative arose after he learned of numerous premature deaths within the community.

“In just the past two years, I’ve known 22 individuals who lost their lives to suicide or drug-related issues,” he revealed.

“SADLY, LGBTQ+ individuals are at a heightened risk for suicide and certain types of drug-related fatalities,” he underscored.

As a social psychologist currently pursuing a PhD in LGBTQ+ mental health, Marc indicated that studies reveal a troubling trend of “sudden and untimely” deaths.

“Connecting people to community resources or groups that share similar hobbies and interests could be a powerful way to address the isolation and loneliness that many in the LGBTQ+ community experience,” he suggested.

One of the initial establishments to join the directory is The Weekending, a gym situated in Elephant & Castle, south London, dedicated to fostering connections among the LGBTQ+ community and their allies.

Fabio Pozzetto, the founder, stated, “Traditionally, the LGBTQ+ community would socialize in clubs at night—now we’re aiming to promote healthier alternatives.”

He expressed that the gym aligns perfectly with the mission of the Ask Bobby directory.

“Many face discrimination and isolation, and this is a place where everyone feels welcome,” he added.

Matty Lamy, a member of the gym, echoes this sentiment.

He considers the gym his “second home” since the challenging times of the Covid lockdowns, which he described as “extremely tough.”

“Isolation was my greatest hurdle, and I could feel myself starting to spiral,” he recounted.

However, he noted that joining the gym has “transformed my mindset and approach to life.”

“It’s a mutually beneficial experience because the connections you forge within this community are absolutely incredible,” he remarked.

Reflecting on the significance of the Ask Bobby initiative, Davide expressed, “This is the legacy that Robin’s family, friends, and I envision for him—a way for him to continue illuminating the path for those in our community facing difficulties.”

“Robin would have been proud to see this endeavor being undertaken in his honor.”