My dear friend Molly Bodinetz, who passed away at the age of 46, was a remarkable clinical psychologist dedicated to aiding vulnerable young individuals at risk of entering care or custody, as well as their families.
In the 2000s, while working with the national and specialist adoption and fostering team at the Maudsley Hospital in London, Molly played a pivotal role in the early trials of Multisystemic Therapy (MST) in Hackney, which commenced in 2008. The successful adoption of MST throughout the UK led to improved school attendance and a decrease in juvenile offenses.
Molly was born in London to Sue (née Evans), a costume designer, and Tony Bodinetz, an advertising copywriter. She attended James Allen’s girls’ school in Dulwich before obtaining both her undergraduate and doctoral degrees in clinical psychology at University College London.
In 2016, she made the decision to fold up her Brompton bike and leave London in search of a life closer to the sea. She established her home in Devon to raise her young son, Esah.
Molly became a member of Psychology Associates, a support organization in Exeter, where she advanced to the position of clinical lead for adoption and fostering. She also joined the research committee of the Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute.
The principles of DDP, which emphasize fostering a safe and trusting bond between a child and their caregiver, deeply resonated with Molly. She believed in conveying to families the message, “we come in peace,” and understood that “if it were easy, you’d already be doing it, so let us assist you in becoming the family you aspire to be.”
In April 2021, Molly took on the role of senior clinical psychologist and clinical lead at Bridges within Devon County Council, where she was instrumental in developing the Bridges model. This model supports professionals working to prevent family breakdown and keep young people out of care. The Bridges team earned recognition as the team of the year for children’s services at the 2023 Social Worker of the Year awards.
Molly’s battle with cancer was abrupt and swift, yet it granted her time for reunions with loved ones, moments to dance, sip tea, and reflect as the waves crashed against her cherished Dawlish coastline.
Her enduring legacy of kindness and empathy, along with her impeccable taste in Adidas sportswear, will be cherished by all who were lucky enough to know her.
Molly is survived by her son Esah, her siblings Gemma, Jack, Noah, Zoe, Gabe, Nat, and Elijah, as well as her mother, Sue.
